Communications Column – December 2025

By Walter Boomsma
207 343-1842
Communications Director

Simple Communication

And so I’m offering this simple phrase
To kids from one to ninety-two
Although it’s been said many times, many ways
Merry Christmas to you.

Sometimes, simple is best. The holiday season invites us to consider that possibility as an opportunity. Sending a holiday card, to some extent, helps us answer the question, โ€œHow many ways can you sayโ€ฆโ€ The card company makes its best attempts. For a small additional fee, we can imprint our name and eliminate the need for a signature. Simple.

Itโ€™s easy to argue that we lose something in simplicity. I think automation takes a toll. I did some shopping the other day. I didnโ€™t keep track of how many times I was told to โ€œHave a nice day.โ€ I wasnโ€™t annoyed by it, but neither was I deeply moved by it. Occasionally, I was tempted to ask for clarification. โ€œAnd how would you suggest I go about doing that?โ€

The best communication isnโ€™t automatic. The best communication is thoughtful and heartfelt. And that can be simple. One cashier placed her hand with my change into mine, but didnโ€™t release it. This caught my attention, and I instinctively made eye contact. With her hand in mine, she smiled and wished me a nice day. I think her eyes twinkled a bit. We connected. I knew she meant it. Simple.

Communication should be about connection. Donโ€™t let the words get in the way.


FACT: The two most popular categories of posts are Grange Activities and Grange News.

Mary Jo loves the Grange!

I love being a member of Norway Grange #45. I love volunteering for activities with members that involve not only our local communities, our surrounding communities as well. Partnering and collaborating with other Granges , learning and listening to ideas . Going to State Convention is a joy and beautiful experience; I am speaking from my perspective. I have been a member since 2017, that is when I arrived, and I am so happy I did. I am 75, it has given me a new perspective on retirement or semi-retirement. It has given me a purpose and a new beginning.

Mary Jo DiBenedetto, Norway Grange #45


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Maine Ag Trades Show Lineup

Reprinted with permission from an enewsletter published by Maine Senator Stacey Guerin.

The Maine Department of Agriculture, Conservation and Forestry (DACF) has announced the full slate of educational sessions and meetings for theย 85thย Maine Agricultural Trades Show, taking placeย January 13โ€“15, 2026, at the Augusta Civic Center.

The three-day event brings together farmers, foresters, food producers, agri-business owners, students and partners from across the state and region for hands-on training, policy discussions, business development workshops, industry meetings and networking events focused on building a strong, resilient future for Maine agriculture.

More thanย 80 sessionsย are scheduled and offered in partnership with more than a dozen organizations. Conference highlights include programming on business development, grants, certification, production practices, workforce and health, markets, food systems, policy and much more. There is no admission fee to attend the show. Please check the conference listings for any pre-registration and course fee requirements. Full session schedules and registration information are available at: ย https://www.maine.gov/dacf/agtradesshow.

Fraternal Caring…

Submitted by Master Sherry

Once again, our fraternal family has lost another good member. Brother Darrell Huff, a former Executive Member of the Maine State Grange, passed away Sunday afternoon.ย The memorial service will be on Dec 29 at his church; details to come.ย 
ย 
Please keep Betty and their family in your prayers.
ย Betty Huff
281 Gorham Rd
Scarborough, ME 04074

An obituary for Darrell is available here. The memorial service is on Monday, December 29th, at the Scarborough Free Baptist Church, 55 Massey Road, at 10 am.

Additionally, Nate Pennell, EC member is improving after his heart attack. Please keep him in your prayers also.ย 
Nate Pennell
PO Box 505
Machias, ME 04654-0505

Fraud Watch- Airline Call Center Scams

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Reprinted with permission from AARP’s Fraud Watch Network.

With the holiday travel season fast approaching, scammers are poised to capitalize on travelers needing help with last-minute flight changes and cancellations. Donโ€™t let  fake customer service  derail your trip โ€“ or drain your wallet. Hereโ€™s a few things you should know to stay ahead of airline call center scams.

Just because an airline customer service helpline number appears at the top of internet search results doesnโ€™t mean itโ€™s legitimate. Fraudulent numbers often surface in search results, and scammers constantly find new ways to make their numbers appear first. To avoid this risk, download your airlineโ€™s official app. In addition to providing the airlineโ€™s verified 800 number, the app delivers real-time flight notifications and other important updates.

Be on the lookout for red flags, such as aggressive tactics pushing you to buy a ticket immediately because โ€œthe price will go up.โ€ And if your flight is canceled, you usually do not need to pay to be rebooked. Any โ€œagentโ€ requesting a credit card to do so is likely after your money, not your flight.


Report scams to local law enforcement. For help from AARP, call 1-877-908-3360 or visit the AARP Fraud Watch Network at aarp.org/fraudwatchnetwork.

AARP Fraud Watch Network

Need a scam prevention speaker for your group? Click the link to fill out the AARP online form or email me@aarp.org.

View from the Farm – December, 2025

Webmaster’s note: The format of this column includes all of the Quill’s Endians participating at various times and in various ways! Phil writes this month’s column.

Why Three Acres?

I’ve been listening to some interviews with notable farmers and local food activists. The podcasts, put on by The Real Organic project, showcase the contrarian nature of people that belong to and love a place.

There is inherent in soil care a touch of philosophy, an outcropping of the results seen and unseen. The results are immediate and take lifetimes, so agrarians must, as Wendell Berry writes, count the humus as gain.

An interview with the late Michael Phillips, an orchardist and author from New Hampshire, reminded me again that the language of farming needs to change. His use of the term “radical diversity” in nurturing his orchard is foreign to the current agricultural monoculture model which drives the vast majority of the production in our country. His three-acre orchard contains 120 varieties of apples. The under story of his orchard received as much care as the fruit producing (income producing) over story. 

When asked why three acres, his answer was about stewardship, not markets, income, or demand. He could properly take care of three acres of trees…so, three. I wonder if he would have liked more orchard, but his place and his stewardship limited him.

He relied on natural food stores and an apple CSA to sell his apples, eschewing the wholesale market that drives overproduction and the destruction of our farmlands and farmers. He shared his lifetime of knowledge in his books and in workshops, hoping, no doubt, to inspire the care in more folks. We need those folks as we move forward in addressing the myriad of issues surrounding our current agricultural circumstances.

The most vital part of agricultural reform is you. Nourishing, delicious, local food only exists when people make the concerted effort to patronize the local producers with business, encouragement, and an evangelical fervor. We need creative eaters with pantries and refrigerators that are filled with neighbors’ produce. We need systems that bypass consumer culture and benefit eaters and farmers rather than commodity traders and poison vendors. Farmers need you in their overall picture as we tend our places because it is an honor, as well as a responsibility to feed you, and… feed you well.


Heather and Phil Retberg and their three children run Quill’s End Farm, a 105-acre property in Penobscot that they bought in 2004. They use rotational grazing on their fifteen open acres and are renovating thirty more acres from woods to pasture to increase grazing for their pigs, grass-fed cattle, lambs, laying hens, and goats. Quill’s Endians are members of Halcyon Grange and publish a newsletter for their farm’s buying club of farmers in her area and generously permit us to share some of their columns with Grangers. Visit the Quill’s End Farm Facebook Page for more information.

Exploring Traditions – December, 2025

Meandering Around the Grange Way of Life


By Walter Boomsma, Guest Columnist

May I Incite you? (Part two)

This monthโ€™s column is a bit of an โ€œop-ed.โ€ My October column challenged the use of the word โ€œInciteโ€ in the installing officerโ€™s charge to the Steward during officer installation.

I also confessed to being a wordsmith. Lynn Van Note of Parkman Grange sent this reply.

While meandering through the recent State Grange Bulletin, I happened upon your โ€œExploring Traditionsโ€ column.

I think the word โ€œinciteโ€ was used deliberately:

During the 1800s, the word was used with the same general meaning it has today. For example, in the 1828 edition of the American Dictionary of the English Language by Noah Webster, “incite” is defined as:

  • To move the mind to action by persuasion or motives presented; to stir up; to rouse; to spur on”.
  • “To move to action by impulse or influence.
  • “To animate; to encourage.ย 

A notable example of its use in that era is in the context of the “Slave Bible” from the 1800s, which omitted passages that might “incite rebellion” or inspire liberation among enslaved people. This demonstrates that the word carried the connotation of encouraging significant, sometimes negative or rebellious, action, which is consistent with modern usage. 

Although the word has tended to go negative more recently, I think it had a more rousing, encouraging aspect โ€” to incite the mind to the point of action, whether good or bad.(But, of course, Thomas Paineโ€™s writings certainly did โ€œinciteโ€ those damn colonists to rebellion.)

In replying, I noted that we really didnโ€™t disagree, but the discussion does raise an interesting question. When we talk about โ€œupdatingโ€ the language of the Ritual, what guidelines do we follow? For example, in defense of Lynnโ€™s point, changing the word โ€œinciteโ€ might significantly change the meaning (and appropriateness) of the Ritual itself. How say you? Do we want the steward inciting people? Sometimes the question is more important than the answer. Questions mean weโ€™re thinking, not just parroting the words weโ€™ve been given.

We can surely agree, the Ritual gives us much to think about. I donโ€™t know the word count for the installation of officers, but weโ€™re discussing just one word of it. Itโ€™s tempting to adopt that perspective and flip a coin, but do we really want to subscribe to Ritual thatโ€™s based on the flip of a coin?

I hope itโ€™s obvious this is a friendly, civil discussion. And I canโ€™t resist noting itโ€™s proof that people really do read the Bulletin!


Any degree or ritual quotations are from the forty-seventh edition of the 2023 Subordinate Grange Manual or the most recent edition of the Pomona Grange Manual. The views and opinions expressed in “Exploring Traditions” are those of the author and do not necessarily reflect the official doctrine and policy of the Grange. Information about the book “Exploring Traditionsโ€”Celebrating the Grange Way of Life” can be found at http://abbotvillagepress.com, on Mr. Boomsma’s Amazon Author Page, or by contacting the author.

Membership Moments

Rick Grotton

By Rick Grotton,
Membership Committee Director
207 582-5915

With all the chaos in our country, the Grange needs to step up and help those in need. We need to work as one and become stronger. The Grange needs to keep its reputation as a safe place to go, with helping hands and friendly people.ย  Our communities need us more than ever, so we need to be ever so vigilant.ย  We need to let our communities know we are there for them. After all, isn’t that the Grange way?

Keep in contact with others, schedule events helpful to the people, such as a free clothing drive, craft fairs, dinners, lunches, card and game nights, and other social events. It only takes a smile to make someoneโ€™s day. Grangers are givers. Grangers are helpers. Grangers care.

To attract new members, we must always be on our โ€œAโ€ game. Be positive, smile, lend a helping hand, listen to others; their concerns and needs. Our communities need us more now than ever, so reach out! Remember why you joined the Grange and why you still belong.ย  Having been a Grange member for 40 years, I am truly grateful for all the Grange has provided me with: love, lasting friendships, and the opportunity to make a difference. As has been said, you get out of something what you put in and much more. Tell your story.

As the new year approaches, what changes need to be made? Will the Grange strive to work easier (not always harder) to gain membership, to be a factor in our communities, a name that all will trust, and most of all, visible to others? YOU can make it happen. YOU can be a factor. YOU CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE!

Happy Holidays to all.

Community Service/FHH – December 2025

By Brenda Dyer, MSG Community Service/FHH Director
(207) 608-9193

Every Grange has started the Community Service Projects. Please keep an individual form for each project. I am waiting on National Grange as to whether book reports will be sent to National or if they will just be sent to the state report.

Family Health and Hearing

Plan or help with family things to do in the community

  • sponsor a blood drive, mittens, hats and scarves for community,
  • sponsor a workshop on hearing. Check with the community about free hearing tests.

Enjoy the rest of Autumn and the upcoming Winter. Merry Christmas and a Happy, Healthy 2026!

Grange Today! 12-12-2025

The Newsletter of the National Grange

Articles in this edition include:

  • A Year of Momentum: The National Grangeโ€™s 2025 Year-in-Review
  • โ€œWhat does the Grange mean to you?โ€
  • Rural Life Initiative: A Year of Impact
  • Save the Date: Strategies to Strengthen Our Communities webinar seriesโ€œ
  • Support the Grange Foundation through the Common Routes Challenge
  • Grange Heirloom for December
  • Hamp Watch: Catching up with the National Grange President
  • Recipes from the Heartland
  • Watch Out for Fraud While Holiday Shopping
  • Member Benefit: Choice Hotels
  • Grange Store: #GrangeStrong Socks

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